Guide to Choosing Throw Pillows

This Guide to Choosing Throw Pillows post was updated in August 2022.
Guide to Choosing Throw Pillows
We’re always touting how easy it is to breathe new life in your room simply by switching out throw pillows. It’s true, choosing throw pillows in fresh fabrics and colors can give your space a totally different feel, but that doesn’t mean it’s easy to cull through all of the thousands of great throw pillows in every shade imaginable to find 4 or 5 that will work well for your space. There’s an overwhelming selection out there, which makes the process of choosing throw pillows so confusing! Well, we want to make things easier for you. Consider this our guide to choosing the right throw pillows for your room.

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First, there are a few principals you should always keep in mind when choosing throw pillows:

  1. Choose one cohesive color palette and do not veer from it. You’re going to get the most impact if all of your pillows are either in the same shade or in a pair of complimentary shades.
  2. Shoot for a symmetrical arrangement, whether it’s on your couch, bed, or a window seat. When you’re layering several different fabrics on top of each other, things can get really busy, really fast. We like a symmetrical arrangement because it keeps things feeling orderly and polished.
  3. One simple print, one busy print, and one solid. This is a basic formula that’ll help you narrow down your options. Another way to think about it is — one small print, one big print, one solid. Your busy/large print should be on your largest pillows or the pillow that is front and center, as this print will usually set the tone for not just your pillow arrangement but the rest of your room. Plaids and stripes work well as small/simple prints.
  4. As your move towards the inside of the sofa, the pillows should get smaller. Visually, your largest pillows should be in the far corners, and your smaller pillow should be on the inside. But also for comfort, it makes the most sense to add the large 22 or 24″ pillows on the sides, where you won’t need to move them out of the way. A small 12×20″ pillow right in the center won’t make you feel like you’re perched on the edge of the couch because the pillows are taking up all of the room!
  5. Although decorative, pillows are really meant to add comfort to your upholstered furniture pieces, so don’t go overboard! We’ve all sat down on that couch that is so packed to the gills with throw pillows that you feel like you’re being shoved into a bag of marshmallows. This is not the situation you want to create, so if you have to ask if you have too many, take on or two away!

Once you have these basic principles down, you’re ready to pick out fabrics! This is the fun part of choosing throw pillows, but also the time when we become the most confused. There are just so many options! To narrow it down, consider the style you’d like to create in your home.

Choose throw pillows in an orange and blue color palette

Choosing Throw Pillows with Bold Solids

If your room already has a lot of patterns, like a patterned sofa, dramatic curtains, or a vibrant rug, take your pillow fabrics down a notch. Or if you really like color but don’t want to use a vibrant hue on large pieces (like your sofa or club chairs) just use solid pillows in very vibrant hues.

Here, we chose two colors that are on the opposite ends of the color wheel (called complimentary colors), a spicy orange and a cool blue. Colors look extra rich and vibrant when placed next to to complimentary colors, making the overall look much more dramatic. Individually, they look nice, but together they really sing!

If you’re starting from scratch, find a fabric, an art print, or an accessory as a jumping off point. For example, we picked the gorgeous plaid throw on the back of the sofa and let it inspire the rest of the space. The spicy orange and navy are both found in the blanket, so we picked pillows in solid shades for maximum color impact!

Choose throw pillows with a spicy orange color palette

Choosing Throw Pillows in One Color, Three Patterns

If you are choosing throw pillows in a group of just one color, opt for three different fabrics that work together. We used a very organic, bold print as our jumping off point (the floral pattern in the center), and we balanced the color on the sofa with bold velvet pillows in the corner and plaid pillows in the middle.

The basic key here is balance. The bold pillows in the middle and in the corners help to balance the off-white sofa and lighter plaid pillows. The feminine floral print in the center is balanced by a more masculine plaid print on either side. And the patterned pieces are a balance to the solid pieces.

So when you’re putting together different fabrics in the same color, just ask yourself, “does this pattern balance this pattern?”

Choose throw pillows with a neutral color palette

Choosing Throw Pillows in Warm, Neutral Colors

Even if you want to keep your color palette neutral, you’ll still need a few throw pillows to bring texture and pattern to your space. For this combination, we chose a color palette of off-white, taupe, and chocolate.

We started with our busiest print, an animal print, then we brought in a much larger print in a complimentary color with the Buffalo Check. Finally to tie these two prints together and act as a backdrop, we chose a solid chocolate brown linen pillow with a contrasting flange.

Choose throw pillows with a Pink and Orange color palette

Choosing Throw Pillows in Simple but Fresh Analogous Colors

If you like color but want a group of pillows that aren’t too loud, try choosing throw pillows in colors that are next to each other on the color wheel, or analogous colors. These are colors that have a lot in common but are different, which makes for a color palette that is quieter and more polished.

For the sofa above, we chose pink and orange. These two colors are neighbors on the color wheel, but they’re still a great pairing. We also picked two art pieces to hang over the couch that reinforce the pink-and-orange combination.

For a quieter combination of patterns, we chose a very small stripe in orange (in the center), two larger off-white pillows with an orange medallion, and two solid pillows in pink.

Choose throw pillows on an off-white couch

Choosing Throw Pillows with Solids as an Exclamation Point

We love the way a well placed solid pillow in a vibrant color can act like an exclamation point on your couch. A rich, sapphire blue stands out the most, even though there are patterns and other colors here too. A solid pillow may seem like a boring choice when there are so many lovely patterns out there, but in the right space, one solid pillow in a bold color can really establish a color palette that may have been hiding.

If you want to breathe new life into your space with very little effort, use a couple of solid pillows in a bold color in your space. Pull this color from other patterns on your upholstered pieces or in your accessories, then use that color in punches throughout your space. This is a strategy Suzanne Kasler talks about using in the spaces she designs.

Choose hrow pillows in Emerald green and stripes

Choosing Throw Pillows in Streamlined Stripes

If you’re looking for an approach that isn’t fussy, we love to simply pair one bold color in a lush fabric (here we used velvet) with a classic stripe. Stripes are a great pattern to use for pillows because they’re the perfect balance of bold and simple. Our strategy here was easy enough, choose one bold color used elsewhere in your space for three pillows, then bring in two striped pillows for a little pattern.

Choosing pillows that are asymmetrical Choosing Throw Pillows that are Asymmetrical

While we typically prefer a more orderly arrangement, you can play with asymmetry, especially if your space is already very polished and cohesive. In the living room above, we chose simple solid pillows as our largest pillow and to set off a fun floral print. Since this space has a very buttoned-up color palette, a little asymmetry works well.

Let’s Talk Inserts

Ok, after all of this talk of colors and patterns, it’s time to get down to the less exciting details… like inserts. Just like the filling inside your sofa, what’s on the inside is just as important as the outside, even with throw pillows. Pillows are meant to bring extra comfort and cushion to your couch, so it’s important to use good quality throw pillows. All foam throw pillows aren’t going to be your first choice for support when you’re trying to curl up for a nap on your couch.

You don’t necessarily need the most expensive inserts, but do choose inserts that include both feather and down. We’re obviously partial to our own down blended inserts which are 95% feathers and 5% down.

Take the guesswork out of your shopping with our premade pillow sets for a perfectly curated look.

Here’s another little secret when you’re choosing inserts for your pillows. If you want a fuller pillow, size up your insert. For example, if you have a 20″ cover, and you want a really full pillow, use a 22″ insert.
Now, are you ready to choose pillows for your space? Remember that in addition to our readymade pillows, you can order a pillow cover in any of our 200+ fabrics with our Ballard Cutsom Pillow Covers!

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Caroline McDonald

Caroline lives for pairing together patterns, mixing furniture styles, and oogling over our newest furniture pieces. As you can imagine, her little 1920's craftsman is in a constant state of flux. Here on How to Decorate, it's her goal to help you turn your home into your own little slice of paradise.

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  1. Reply

    Angie

    December 19, 2023

    Hi- was trying to get some tips but found the examples to be very formal looking, not a look we feel good in. Also, two huge pillows on a side chair? Am having difficulty relating real life everyday living with some of these advice blogs. Whether in my own home or visiting another, I do not want to approach any seating with the idea of having to take off pillows to get comfortable. How about a blog that depicts real world comfort and everyday living and the amount of pillows one would then have for comfort in that scenario? perhaps one 12×20 accent pillow on a side chair that can be turned sideways for arm cushioning? Perhaps three pillows on a sofa and then how does one coordinate those side pillow colors with the couch pillows and other surroundings without looking all old lady matchy matchy? I am an older person and the stiff formality leaves me gasping for fresh air and energy. Less formality that pleases the senses is much more difficult to design but would love it if you all would take a stab at that. Thanks

    • Reply

      Kelley Bostian

      January 26, 2024

      Hi Angie,

      Thanks for the insightful comment! We like the idea of how to achieve a designer look while maintaining practical comfort–going to add that to our list of forthcoming blog topics. Let us know if there’s any other questions you have in that area outside of just throw pillows and we’d be happy to cover it.

      Happy Decorating,
      Kelley

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    Sharon

    January 20, 2023

    I need advice on decorating with pillows who can help me and where can I upload photos?

    • Reply

      Kelley Bostian

      January 24, 2023

      Hi Sharon,
      The writing team here at Ballard Designs would love to help you pick pillows, but we think you’d find better advice by reaching out to our FREE Design Services consultation department. They’d be happy to help you answer that question at no cost.
      Happy Decorating,
      Kelley

  3. Reply

    Suraia Patricia Interiors

    November 5, 2022

    Great Article, Pillow cover you mentioned in this article look nice and perfect for my client designed. Thanks for share such information.

    • Reply

      Kelley Bostian

      December 27, 2022

      Thank you for the kind words! We love helping everyone find their inner decorator with helpful posts like this. Glad you found it insightful.
      Happy Decorating,
      Kelley

  4. Reply

    Teena

    June 2, 2021

    Thank you for your article! A white sofa or fabrics with white backgrounds solve many dilemmas. I had a pair of slipper chairs reupholstered and was sold into a solid Yellow Tweed fabric to complement my solid Bronze Leather sofa. This combo makes coordinating pillows difficult for me as I see leather as warm, neutral and hip versus the tweed as cool, colorful and nerdy. Do you suppose she had a Tommy Bahama look in mind? I really like geometrical patterns. The slippers are deep and need pillows.

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      Abbey Nolte

      June 10, 2021

      Hi Teena,
      It’s hard to make a suggestion for the pillows without seeing your space. We have a team of free interior designers who would love to help you figure out your decorating dilemma. Simply upload images of your room and your question here.
      Abbey

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    Diane

    March 12, 2021

    I need help with figuring out what color pillows would look best on my dark grey couches. My walls are white, and my accessories throughout the room are black/gold. I will upload photos, if you allow. Please help me!!

    • Reply

      Abbey Nolte

      March 24, 2021

      Diane,
      We have a team of free interior designers who would love to help you figure out your decorating dilemma. Simply upload images of your room and your question here.

  6. Reply

    Aerene singh

    February 8, 2021

    Hi we have open plan new home and please help me to choose pillow colors for my black leather sofa n loveseat, our living room area rug is silver grey with dark grey shade n black shade.
    Our coffee table n fireplace is shining silver glass

    It’s very hard to cordinate accessaries for my home
    Please help.

    Aerene

    • Reply

      Abbey Nolte

      February 18, 2021

      Aerene,
      We have a team of free interior designers who would love to help you figure out your decorating dilemma. Simply upload images of your room and your question here.

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    Dana

    January 6, 2020

    I recently re-upholstered two wingback chairs for my living room with a slightly busy navy blue pattern. I can’t decide if the chairs should have throw pillows on them or not? Would adding a pillow to each be too much with the print? Are the chairs alone enough?

    Thank you!

    • Reply

      Abbey Nolte

      January 8, 2020

      Hi Dana,
      It never hurts to add a throw pillow! Just make sure it compliments the piece of furniture it’s going on. We like to stick with solid colored pillows against a busy pattern.
      Abbey

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    Carrie

    September 6, 2018

    Wow. How very helpful! Honestly, I think this is the best article I have read when it comes to Throw Pillow guides. It is always so difficult making home deco choices. I found the perfect website for throw pillows – http://www.avigaildesignsathome.com – I love their stuff (throw pillows are based according to theme) and free worldwide shipping is awesome! Hope this helps!!

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    DEEPA J PATOLE

    September 5, 2018

    hello ,

    I just purchased two three seater leather walnut color sofas . Can you please help me what color cushions will look good on it.

    Deepa

    • Reply

      Heather Daly

      September 11, 2018

      Hi Deepa,
      Leather is a great neutral so you could really do anything as far as patterns or colors. If you’d like to keep things more monochromatic you could layer different textures and sizes of pillows. For a different look, you could also add fun pops of jewel toned pillows as they would pair nicely with a brown leather sofa.
      Good Luck!

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    Amanda

    April 7, 2018

    Great guide! I love the info provided by you. Your guide is very helpful for everyone to choosing throw pillows. Thanks for sharing.

  11. Reply

    Bobby Fox

    March 23, 2018

    Hello, I’m trying to determine what color throw pillows would go on a white mini bench. My walls are light gray, can someone please help me?

    • Reply

      Caroline McDonald

      August 21, 2018

      Bobby,
      We actually offer free design services online or in our stores. Sign up here and a trained interior designer will help you put together a plan!
      Happy decorating,
      Caroline

  12. Reply

    Marie Manning

    November 17, 2017

    I have a couch and loveseat in a floral pattern which has many colours in it and would like to know what colour(s) should I choose for pillows; the main colour (rose/rust) or a secondary colour (yellow/gold) or third colour (blue/teal) or a mix of colours? There are also a number of shades of green for the vines and leaves which match a large chair/ottoman as well. I’d like to put 5 pillows on each one. Does this make any sense?

    • Reply

      Caroline McDonald

      November 22, 2017

      Marie,
      Send us some photos of your space, including the fabrics, and we’ll be happy to make some recommendations. Upload and send details using this form, and one of our designers will reach out to you!
      Thanks for sending in your question,
      Caroline

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    Oksana

    August 6, 2017

    Hi! I need help in choosing pillows for my white modern leather coach. Can someone help me with it?
    Thank you!

    • Reply

      Annika Dupree

      August 7, 2017

      Hi Oksana,
      With a white modern leather couch,it gives you a lot of options for pillows-colorful, patterned, or neutrals. We’d love to help you choose pillows to complement the couch and rest of the space! We offer a free program in which our in-house interior designers help pick out furniture, accessories, and fabric, etc. Just send in your question along with a picture of the space here and someone will reach out to you with a plan!

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    Mayra

    July 15, 2017

    Hi,I need to put together in my taupe couch some pillows but I don not have any idea about it,my living room has a muted color rug and the furnitures there have neutral colors,needing the suggestion for what color of pillows would helps to stand up the room
    Thanks.

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      Annika Dupree

      July 17, 2017

      Hi Mayra,
      We would love to help you with these decorating touches to your living room! We offer a free design service in which our in-house interior designers help pick out furniture, fabric, accessories, etc. Just send in your question here along with a picture of your living room and a designer will reach out to you with a solution!

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    Alex Dean

    May 22, 2017

    We have been redecorating our living room, and the time has come to pick out the throw pillows. I like how you said that something we will want to choose pillows that have bold colors on them. So we might want to pick ones that are on opposite ends of the color wheel, to help the room stand out.

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      Annika Dupree

      June 5, 2017

      Alex,
      We are glad you are finding the guide inspirational and helpful in your design process. We offer a free design service in which our interior designers help pick out furniture, fabric,and accessories! Therefore, this service might be helpful for this design decision. You can send in your question and a picture of the living room here, and a designer will reach out to you with a plan!

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    Mini

    May 8, 2017

    Is it ok to mix n match a busy traditional print with a modern looking print in the similar color family?

    • Reply

      Annika Dupree

      June 5, 2017

      Mini,
      Since I do not know what else is in the living space, I would suggest taking advantage of our free design service we offer with our interior designers who can help pick out colors, fabric, furniture, and accessories. Just send them your question and a picture of the living space here, and a designer will contact you with a design plan!

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    Catherine McClenny

    May 8, 2017

    Would like help picking out throw pillows for my family room:-). It’s a very large space!!! To get furniture that was big enough for the room we had to go with a very big, charcoal gray color wrap around couch and then got a matching “chair for 2” and ottoman in the charcoal gray as well. The furniture came with several, maybe 8, square, charcoal gray throw pillows. I don’t know what these things were made of but they constantly leaked feathers everywhere!! And the feathers would poke u from inside the pillow!! Anyways I threw them all away and now I have nothing!!! I know I need a lot for the wrap around and prob a few for the chair too! Would like to go for a “pottery barn” look without paying a crazy amount of $$!!!!! Please help!!! Was at bed bath and beyond over the weekend and they had a barel of random clearance throw pillows! Was trying to go with a gray and cream color pallet, thought I had picked out a group of pillows that looked good together but first off it was only 5 pillows, which on your wrap around example u have a lot more than 5! Also I thought the prices were too high!!!! I work like to stay in the $8-$17 per pillow price range if at all possible!!! I did buy 1 pillow that I just couldn’t walk away from!!! It’s cream with a embroidered gray pattern and the full price way 89.99 and they had it marked down to 9.99 and then I had a 20% off coupon on top of that!!!!! Help me finish what I started!!

    • Reply

      Annika Dupree

      June 5, 2017

      Catherine,
      We would love to help you pick out pillows! We offer a free design service where our interior designers help pick out furniture, fabrics, and accessories. Just send in your question along with a picture of the space here, and a designer will reach out to you with a plan!

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    Janice

    January 31, 2017

    HELP I would like to order a few pillows but my trouble is I do not know what color pillows to use. My sofa is light-medium silk blue with a small about of medium brown and gold color. HELP PLEASE…if I am able to send a photo I would be thrilled to because I want a lot of pillows the sofa is 36″ deep and is about 10 feet long. Thanks and Many blessings, Janice

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    Deedee Lewis

    December 21, 2016

    I love the idea of using solid pillows with vibrant hues. For weeks now I’ve been trying to figure out the best way to decorate the patterned sofas in our living room because I want throw pillows but I don’t want our family area to be too loud either. What’s been helping is stopping by furniture stores to see what the pillows would look like all together.

    • Reply

      Caroline McDonald

      December 22, 2016

      Deedee,
      So glad you found this post helpful! Solid pillows can be so pretty, especially on a patterned sofa. I’d recommend getting a mix of textures — like maybe a pair of velvet pillows in a vibrant hue, and a pair of linen. The contrast in the textures will give them a little more interest.
      Best of luck!

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    Carolyn Daley

    September 11, 2016

    I too love the decorating advice and have used Ballard for my go to for decorating the last couple of years, love their staff. However this blog on the throw pillows and photos, I feel they are all too ‘matchey matchey’ I like to be a little more casual with my throw pillows on my Sunfest, chairs, and beds. Not necessarily matching on both sides in fabric design or number of pillows. I always find a common color bond however.

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      How to Decorate

      September 12, 2016

      Carolyn,

      We are so thrilled to hear you love Ballard and our decorating suggestions. We totally agree that there are more ways to skin the cat! This is meant to be a guide for someone who doesn’t feel comfortable about mixing and matching and wants a foolproof method for making choices. That’s why it’s a little on the formulaic side.

      It sounds like you’ve got a great strategy for picking out coordinating pillows — a common color bond is a great suggestion.

      As with nearly any decorating project, it all comes down to what your own preferences are. We always want for you to choose what makes YOU happy.

      Thank you so much for reading How to Decorate, and THANK YOU THANK YOU for your comment and feedback.

      Caroline

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    Jennifer M.Main

    July 17, 2016

    I am impressed. I want a 20″ pillow cove in peony. Linen. I love this pink. I have the insert. My original pillow cover shredded on the 4 corners. I will cal to order.. I had no Idea you had a service team to help. Thank u Ballard Design.

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    Brooke McAvoy

    July 8, 2016

    I like your tips on a symmetrical arrangement, this type of thing does tend to make it look so put together. Personally, I kind of like it when there are cool patterns in pillows, but I think there should be a theme like these. I think I will take your tip about getting smaller as it goes in towards the couch, but I was thinking of using some custom pillows to make it more fun. What do you think about this?

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    AK

    April 26, 2016

    THANK YOU for listing the pillow sizes and fabrics. Only two things would have made this better for me.
    1. What was the length of the couch?
    2. Showing something besides a solid, neutral couch. Unfortunately not everyone owns a solid couch.

    • Reply

      Caroline @ How to Decorate

      April 26, 2016

      AK,

      Thanks for your comment. So glad you found this helpful! The sofa used was our Candace Sofa which is 89 inches long.

      We totally understand that not everyone has a solid, neutral couch! Great idea. We’ll try to discuss this soon. One suggestions would be to check out our How to Mix Patterns where we talk about pairing different patterns together. If you do have a patterned couch, this would be a great way to choose pillows.

      Thanks again for your comment.
      The How to Decorate Team

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    Pam Burgess

    April 6, 2016

    This was really, really helpful. I see now why I have never been satisfied with the throw pillows I chose. I am motivated to try this technique.

    • Reply

      Caroline @ How to Decorate

      April 7, 2016

      Pam,
      We love getting feedback like this. So happy to hear you find this post helpful!
      Caroline

  25. Reply

    Dessie Woods

    July 30, 2015

    I love your design talent I am moving into a new complex. Please help me stage with my existing furniture pieces: I zebra print chair(black & white) I chair ( wedgewood blue 1 sectional sofa White and other wedgewood décor china inflance glass and black sofa table. Please help stage this living room using blue and white some red/burgduny vases

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      Caroline @ How to Decorate

      July 31, 2015

      Hi Dessie,
      We would love to help you come up with a game plan for your living room. Simply complete this form (don’t forget to include photos and measurements!), and our design team will contact you with a plan and next steps!
      The How to Decorate Team

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    Barbara Allen-

    July 30, 2015

    Thank your for the helpful decorating hints. I am enjoying your website. It is very helpful. I am looking for a few pieces and I think I have found what I am looking for with your funiture Thanks again

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